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When you are on Refined 6.1 or higher, you can reorder your sites. Use the Reorder Sites link to open the tool. In the tool you'll see a simplified map of you sites, and you reorder them by dragging and dropping.
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Navigation
The Site Switcher lists all your sites and the links you configured in the Application Navigator. It is located in the top-left corner of a site. You can decide whether a site displays the Site Switcher and if that site should be listed in the Site Switcher on other sites.
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